After the break-up, you may fear that you will be all alone for the rest…
Breakups are always difficult for anyone but when you realize that you made a huge mistake it’s even more difficult to get them back. You broke up with your ex-girlfriend and your friends warned you that you better know what you’re doing. It seemed that your friends were right because just a few days later you’re regretting your decision.
Right now your ex-girlfriend is hurting and has every right to be angry if you abruptly called it off. Now that you broke up with her you now have a trust issue if she does take you back. Trust is the hardest thing to earn in a relationship and the worse thing to lose. Without it, there is no relationship.
Giving her time to go through her emotions is key right now. No matter how much you want to call her and see her, you have to leave it alone right now. At this rate, her friends probably all know what you have done so there are a lot of things you need to undo. Her friends are coaxing her to move on and that she is better off without some guy who just dumped her. With her network of support you could either be dust in the wind or someone she is still pining away for.
You don’t want to wait too long because she may realize she is better off without you. If you truly made a mistake and are able to work on gaining her trust, you need to make that phone call. Be honest and let her know you made a mistake by letting her go. She may at this point be forgiving or call you a few choice words. Ask to meet her in person and speak in person about what happened and why.
Getting her back may be easy but it’s the path shortly afterwards that cause couples to split again and for good. A lot of men who did the deed of breaking up can’t handle the pressure. Your ex-girlfriend will still hold anger and resentment towards you. You need to be prepared on how you will handle that. Most men begin to get angry and think that if they won their ex-girlfriend back that there is no work to be done. Wrong. Breaking up with someone is highly emotional and you’ve created conflict with someone who now doesn’t trust you and needs to be reassured you’re not going to do it again. It can prove to be too stressful for her and may decide she doesn’t want you anymore.
Either way, do realize your relationship will not be the same when both of you get back together. In the future, use your mistake as a learning experience and never jump the gun if you are truly not sure. Once reconciling, you need to show her with your actions and words that you are truly sorry. It may not be smooth sailing directly after but with work your relationship will grow to an even better place.