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Effective communication is crucial to a loving and long-term successful relationship. If you and your significant other have problems to resolve, then you have to do something to rectify the situation before matters get worse. Here we examine some tips for how to foster better communication between the two of you.
During an argument always fight fair. Focus on the issue at hand. Do not bring up past problems and do not name call. Both of these things will do nothing but hurt your partner’s feelings and cause more tension in your relationship. Always place the focus on collaboration, even when you are in the middle of a disagreement.
Do not be afraid to go first when it comes to talking reasonably during or following an argument. Be the one big enough to make the effort to rationally discuss the situation like two adults. Realize that nothing gets solved by screaming and shouting. Change the dynamics of the dialogue.
When it comes time to forgive and forget, do so. Forgive at the first opportunity and then agree to move on from that point. Do not allow too much time to pass for more angry emotions to surface in your partner.
Become more cognizant of what you say and how you say it. Everything that comes out of your mouth, including the tone you use sends a message. You want to send the right messages that communicates that you are open and receptive and not that you are sullen, negative or closed off to discuss a given topic.
Look for ways in which doing something can benefit both of you at once. In other words, seek out mutual gains whenever you can. Anything that can work in both your interests is valuable to your long-term success as a couple and can also lead to a greater level of happiness in the relationship.
In many relationships one person is the giver and the other is the taker. Be aware of which you are and find ways to reverse the roles so you both end up getting what you need from one another. It is important that you are firm about what you need but also be flexible in terms of how your needs can be met. Be aware that there is often more than one way to do things. Find the happy medium that suits the two of you.
You both have problems that require solutions. Put the same time and energy into finding solutions to your partner’s problems and dilemmas as you do your own. This shows that your emotional investment in the relationship is strong. Your concern and caring for the situation at hand will be very evident to your significant other and this will draw you closer together.
To learn to communicate better think back to past experiences and remember what worked and what didn’t. What is best for one couple is not necessarily best for another. Review these in your mind before approaching your partner. The ingredients that combine to knit your relationship together are special and unique. Let these ingredients work for the betterment of the relationship.